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I’ve brooded and grieved over the topic of deconstruction among Christian influencers. I’m hesitant to address it, but couldn’t escape the feeling I needed to. I’ve listened, read and prayed for hours to understand perspectives of people who’ve altered or discarded their faith. Why does ...
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Long ago I cared for children in my home in order to make ends meet. One specific moment never fades from my memory. I cajoled, rocked and sang to my daughter, Dawn, to calm her for a nap. She fought me and cried; she wasn’t ...
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“Hey, are these our spoons?"  At Tom's words I froze for a second. Are these our spoons? Do I know you? The spoons we use every time we eat? The spoons we grab from their assigned section of the silverware drawer a dozen times a ...
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(Notes from my breakout session at Abide conference) I’m happy to be with you! I love marriage, not because it’s always blissful but because it’s God’s amazing plan. It’s the bedrock of our society and of our relationships. All my life I daydreamed about marriage ...
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My timid fingers find their spots on the keyboard and I think of Moses. I remember how, despite  his hesitancy and fear, He obeyed God. “Give me the words and ideas you want me to write. I can’t do this without You,” I pray. As Moses ...
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I hate change. To clarify, I hate unwanted change that comes without notice and carries pain. In my earlier years, a few terrible events altered life as I knew it and forced me into uncharted waters. exploring SC Change and its accompanying angst also gave ...
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I wonder how much time I’ve lost to worry? In the early years of our marriage I recall standing at our living room window, fixated on the driveway, heart pounding and staccato-like breathing. Tom should have been home. We had no cell phones. The sky ...
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I want to get better in 2022; not to train for a marathon, begin a new diet or redecorate my home. I want to improve at what I’m already doing. I’m sorry if it sounds boring. I've learned over the years, it’s better to make ...
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I had plenty of time on my hands since I was sixteenth in line. The Post Office was characteristically running at a snail’s pace. Over the years, I'd honed my skill of ignoring people. Like those around me, I’d wear a disinterested look, read a ...
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Enroute to Columbia, my neck craned towards the steering wheel, eyes peeled for deer and crazy drivers, hands gripped at 10 and 2. You can’t be too careful on a dark Sunday night after Thanksgiving, on I-95. Blue lights flashed, traffic slowed and emergency vehicles ...
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From the time I was a little girl I daydreamed about marriage. It was an innate desire. Cinderella taught me everything I knew. One day I’d find the one and we’d live happily ever after. How simple it seemed. I made up songs about my second ...
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My husband Tom and I were driving our well-worn path to Wilmington when the revelation came. Irritation is a pivotal part of marriage. I’d keep the thought to myself until I took time to tease it out fully. Frequently irritation shows up when we’re in ...
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