Drowning in Stuff

Myra Freshwater art, depression, home, living fully, overwhelm January 20, 2017clutter, depression, design, home, life, organizing, overwhelm, productivity, Purpose, stuff 2 Comments

Raise your hand if you’re overwhelmed with too much stuff! I awoke this morning; my mind inundated with thoughts of extreme clutter. Recent projects for clients have me realizing how overwhelmed one can feel and how paralyzed and crazy one can become when surrounded by too much.

Interestingly, the stuff can be extremely high end. There is no price valuation in clutter. Expensive statuary, many oil paintings, fine china pieces, too many tchotches, all set in fancy displays. Chaos limits your ability to focus. You cannot find things so you buy duplicates. In such a plethora, one thing can’t be seen. Send me off looking for something in that environment and I literally can’t find it. My eyes are so full and my mind so confused with the mass of treasures. There’s always the fear that you will brush up against one of those expensive pieces and believe me I’ve been warned. You must gently tread around the maze.

Please people, if you are consumed with clutter, whether it’s last week’s newspaper or thousand dollar art; please remove some of it. Give yourself room to think, breathe and live. Don’t let your life be taken hostage by things.

This morning my mind diverted to some calming spaces.

Art galleries—they feature one piece of art in plenty of space so a patron can focus on the beauty of one item. You could argue that galleries have a lot of wasted space. I often tell clients that their eyes and brains need space in their homes to rest. You need to have a table or counter top that is clear of all stuff. Just so you can breathe.
Model homes—clearly these are make believe, but you have to admit they usually feel peaceful. I don’t know how many folks I’ve heard say, “I wish I could just walk away from it all and move to a new house.”
Nice hotel rooms— decorated in calming colors; they have only the essentials. There’s a reason writers often travel from home when focused on a project.

Here are four things you can do today that will inspire you to live with less clutter:

Wash and put away everything in the sink. Clean the sink well. For stainless steel, I like to use Bar Keepers Friend or a similar cleanser. Rinse well. For a nice shine, spray Windex on the sink; dry with a cloth.
Clear your entire kitchen counter. Clean per instructions for the specific surface. Finally, place everything back on the counter that you need on a daily basis. Find homes for the other stuff. Take a breath and enjoy the sight.
Make your bed–if you have a million decorative pillows edit them, leaving only a few.
Clear everything from your dining table—keeping only something pretty in the center.

Editing your home can be addictive. If you find you can’t stop, sort things by category. Keep only a reasonable number, e.g., mugs, water bottles, etc. You’ll be amazed at how much space you actually have!

“When every possession is special, none of them are.”
― Kathi Lipp

“Don’t just declutter, de-own.”
― Joshua Becker

Tips for Staging your Home

Myra Freshwater home, moving, organizing, staging to sell September 16, 2016clutter, design, getting things done, home, moving, organizing, packing, productivity, staging, stuff 3 Comments

One of the most gratifying things I’ve done in the last thirteen years is to stage homes for the real estate market. A staged home has been proven to sell faster and at a higher price than one not staged. http://realestateagentu.com/11-incredible-home-staging-statistics/ During a consultation I point out details, good and bad, that the sellers have become accustomed to. We all need fresh perspective as we are blind to our own stuff.

The minute you decide to sell your home it becomes a house–a product to market to the public. In an effort to cut the emotional ties, I often ask clients to think of their house as a can of soup on a shelf. How can we make it stand out from all the others? Your goal is to make your house irresistible to buyers; to cause them to fall in love when they first lay eyes on it.

AREAS OF FOCUS:

EXTERIOR

Curb appeal is crucial! A buyer will drive right past your house if deterred by the first impression.
Power wash surfaces such as sidewalks, driveways and the house, depending on the structural material.
Lawn and shrubs should be trimmed and in good condition. Enhance the existing landscape material, adding fresh mulch if needed.
Remove empty pots and excessive lawn ornaments. No artificial plants please!
Make sure a wooden deck is in good repair and use sealer or stain as needed. Add a simple seating area using new or like new furnishings.
Porch and entry areas should be clean and simply decorated. Add a new neutral doormat and one large clay pot of healthy greenery or seasonal flowers.
Remember to clean light fixtures and porch ceiling!
Doors should be immaculate with fresh paint and nice looking hardware.

INTERIOR

Remember; the first fifteen seconds are the most critical in drawing a buyer into your house.
Paint walls neutral warm colors. Paint over your purple and red walls.
Clean like you’ve never cleaned before! Take whatever measures needed to eliminate pet odors.
Take special care in bathrooms. Don’t over decorate. White towels and clean surfaces are your best options.
Don’t try to impress buyers with your handiwork and DIY skills, but create a warm, simple and inviting space that they can imagine living in.
Remove personal photos and items.
Pack away or discard tired items and pillows and replace with a few updated decorative items.
Furniture should be arranged for conversation. Don’t line the walls.
Don’t fill each nook and cranny. Buyers want to see enough space for their stuff.
Clean out closets, drawers and cabinets. Discard or store (off site) a LOT of your stuff. Arrange storage spaces attractively and show off the potential storage areas.
You may need to lease a storage unit temporarily. The garage is not a good area to use for excessive storage. It is a good place to park a car and store appropriate things like bikes and tools. Remember to freshen garage walls with paint.
Open the shades and turn on lights when showing your house.
Stage any ambiguous spaces or rooms for specific purposes, such as a home office or craft area.
Be sure that everything is in excellent repair. If things are broken or in need of replacement the buyer may turn away and believe that the property is not cared for properly.
Call Tranquiliving for a detailed staging consultation for only $150!

“Complete all necessary home improvement projects before you show your house. Most buyers are not DIYers and will move on to the next property that is move-in ready.” Myra Freshwater, Tranquiliving

How to Stage your Home When You’re Staying Put

Myra Freshwater family, friends, home, living fully, organizing, planning, staging to stay September 9, 2016design, family, friends, gather, home, hospitality, life, living, organizing, Purpose, stuff, vision 2 Comments

I love helping folks stage their homes when they are selling. Staging makes an enormous difference.

I also enjoy helping clients stage to stay. If you are living in your home— as opposed to marketing to prospective buyers— your home should tell your story.

I have been privileged to be invited into many homes since I launched my organizing/staging business thirteen years ago. I’m honored and humbled that clients would invite me into the most private —and sometimes most embarrassing— part of their lives.

Observations I’ve made when visiting homes:

If a house is hidden behind overgrown shrubs and trees it says, “Go away”.
A dirty or cluttered entrance is not welcoming.
Most people don’t know the best way to arrange furniture.
They do not have a specified purpose for each area.
Pictures are hung too high or incorrectly.
Traditional design principles are not embraced.
Clients are stuck with old furnishings that currently don’t work.
They have been talked into purchasing furniture that does not meet their needs.
They make an erroneous assumption that a container of some sort will make them organized.
They plan a costly and expansive construction project thinking their problems will be solved.

Tips for making your home truly yours:

Create areas for conversation so that you can look another person in the eye when you’re chatting. Don’t line the walls with furniture.
Every little spot does not need to be filled. Empty space is restful for the eyes.
Decide what is the main purpose for each area or room. Do you play games, visit with friends, read or watch television? What furnishings are needed?
Think creatively when choosing pieces of furniture. Repurpose second-hand items to suit your current needs.
Don’t get bamboozled by impressive ads of expensive pieces that look like they’ll solve all your problems. Make shopping decisions based on your own unique needs.
Choose lamps that are adequate in size. I’m surprised at how few lamps I see in homes and how small they are. I often ask, “Where do you read?” Lamps are important for warmth and ambience in addition to reading.
If you have a rug in your main living area, make sure it is large enough to incorporate furniture into a warm cohesive unit.
Locate the focal point in your room–usually the largest decorative feature— if possible set your sofa parallel to it.
Make sure your accessories and decorative pieces are things you love and use. Have just enough old things to weave the stories of generations together. Don’t obliterate your current life with all the old stuff.
Be open-minded. Furniture items eventually become a part of the wall and you may not realize that your crowding can be alleviated by simply moving out one item.
Before embarking on a huge reconstruction project bring in the experts! You may be able to solve your problems by rearranging and repurposing.
Lastly, don’t design your home around what you think other people will like. Create an environment for you and your loved ones! When you are comfortable in your home the feeling is contagious and others will want to share it with you!

Having a beautiful home isn’t an end in itself—its purpose is to provide joy and peace in the place you live.

“The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned.” Maya Angelou